In recent years, the visibility of non-binary, trans, and gender variant individuals has increased, with more celebrities like Janelle Monáe, Elliot Page, and Kehlani openly embracing their identities. This growing awareness around gender diversity highlights the importance of understanding and using gender pronouns correctly.

Exploring Gender Pronouns

A 2022 Pew Research survey revealed that more trans and non-binary individuals are living openly, with about 1.6% of U.S. adults identifying as nonbinary or trans. Additionally, one in five people acknowledges knowing someone who doesn’t identify strictly as a man or woman.

The Merriam-Webster dictionary recognized the singular, gender-neutral pronoun “they” as the word of the year in 2019, reflecting society’s increasing recognition of gender-neutral language.

Beyond ‘She’ and ‘He’: Different Pronoun Options

While “she” and “he” are the most common pronouns associated with women and men, respectively, non-binary individuals may use an array of gender-neutral pronouns to reflect their identities.

• They/Them: This is the most widely recognized gender-neutral pronoun, used singularly to refer to one person.
• Other Pronouns: Options like fae/faer/faers, xe/xem/xyers, ze/hir/hirs, and ve/ver/vis offer additional choices for individuals to express their gender identity.

The Evolution of Gender-Neutral Pronouns

Gender-neutral pronouns have a history dating back to at least the 1700s, with various options emerging over time. Platforms like Tumblr in the early 2010s contributed to their wider adoption and use.

Understanding ‘Rolling’ Pronouns

Some individuals use multiple pronouns, known as “rolling pronouns,” signifying their gender fluidity or preference for varying pronouns based on their feelings about identity.

The Significance of Using Correct Pronouns

Respecting someone’s pronouns is crucial as it affirms their humanity and identity. Misgendering transgender and non-binary individuals can contribute to increased rates of anxiety, depression, and suicidal thoughts, emphasizing the importance of practicing and honoring preferred pronouns.